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Message: [QUOTE="giddyup, post: 5311548, member: 11505"] I’m so sorry to hear about your tragedy. There are no words that will mean much. As now an older guy, I realize that life is incredibly hard and few come out the other side without a lot of heartache at one point or another. What matters is you and your wife stick together and don't let your love for one another become the next victim of this sad event. Anger, guilt, depression and blame can drive you apart. Always try to remember you’re in it together. Lean into each other and don’t drift apart and isolate which also happens. Understand things will get better even though it seems impossible or hopeless but it will take a lot patience and time to heal. I’ve been there as have many. [/QUOTE]