I make it a point never to comment on a woman's weight.
I hear 'ya. But seriously, in an effort to be respectful of women athletes and their unique stories, we have almost made conditioning, which is a key to almost every sport, a taboo subject. It isn't. It never will be.
Shoni is a professional athlete who performs on a very public stage. Her physical ability to perform is a legitimate topic. We should, of course, remember that we are talking about a real, living, actual person here, and not a race horse or etc. There is no reason nor excuse for crude comment. I thought some of the "KML fitness" threads had potential, but I said little in those because I felt the tone was not quite right. I wanted to respond in her defense, but even that seemed somehow inappropriate.
It doesn't help dialog that (for good reason) many women absolutely abhor comments about female physique when the comment is by a male. Too much history, too much baggage. Body image is "a deal" for men. It's a big deal for women.
Still, players, coaches, broadcasters and the rest are, whether they like it or not, part of the entertainment industry. This is true whether the athletes are collegian or professional, but we have sometimes afforded the collegian a little more "space" or privacy. As to the pro athlete, they would be well advised (and usually are) to understand that the the very public-ness of their sport is the same reason they can be employed playing it. Remove audience interest and attention and you eventually remove the sport.
So, if Shoni is not able to do her best due to weight or conditioning, I am sympathetic. I struggle with both. But this doesn't mean that an arena full of paying spectators are obligated to be silent about her play or what they -suppose- to be the explanation for it.
I have spent many afternoons attending the practices of my favorite college's women's sports teams in softball, basketball, and few times for volleyball. Let me assure you that the athletes understand and accept the direct and specific communication they get from their coaches. Nothing profane or inappropriate. Just direct and clear. I am not at all sure that they need to be sheltered or made into a special class. They know, in a way that fans may not, what comes with the territory and what their options are in dealing with it.
All this said, I do understand that good people may differ with me. It's still allowed.