you really are just a self righteous . wow. Maybe you were on vacation for the pages and pages of recruiting talk and discussion about building up relationships with prep schools, juco's and post secondary programs when recruiting for a 1A football program to have potential to compete at top 25 level of play based in the Northeast.
Perhaps you'd be happier, losing a top recruit, to being a typical 18 year old kid having trouble making a very tough life decision, and having a giant hole in the roster going forward. Perhaps you'd be happier having a top recruit get arrested on child smut charges and leave a giant hole in the roster. Perhaps you'd be happier with a player that's an upperclassman and ready to fill a key spot at RB, decide to leave school early and play at a division ii school, and leave a giant hole in the roster .....oh never mind. Attrition in your world must not be a part of football, and if it is, maybe it's catholic guilt or something, you think the program should pay for it on our knees.
There is a right way and a wrong way to go about business, and when you build relationships with prep schools, juco's, and post secondary programs in recruiting, and you are completely open and honest with your communication about what opportunities are available and how you go about earning a spot, and how decions are made, you can have a situation like we've got now, that's a win-win for everybody involved, and a guy leaves, and another guy comes in, without a hiccup.
Show me where a single person has been lied to, not been completely and totally aware and understanding of their situation.
Otherwise STFU.