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Message: [QUOTE="Hans Sprungfeld, post: 4501553, member: 181"] You seem to lack the simple courage to write, "I am upset, angered, frustrated, and saddened by this loss." I understand that these may not exactly be all of your emotions, and that not all of them may apply to you, but I strongly doubt that I'm too far off. I can't ask Danny why he doesn't verbalize his responsibility to your satisfaction, but I can ask you why you don't own your own combination of presumably unwanted emotions more accurately and honestly. I disbelieve that you actually wonder this., though it's a provocative gambit. What prevents you from simply saying that you hold the believe that he is blaming the players and not taking any responsibility, and that you are not okay with it. When both of you are willing to examine what you are hiding from when you express yourself so indirectly, you will likely have better insights into why Coach Hurley presents himself in ways you judge so harshly. Maybe thereafter you can cease to be so unimaginatively predictable in your criticisms. Sounds so easy, huh? I dislike much of what I've seen on the court, and much of what I've watched & read in interviews, and I also dislike many dubiously expressed fan opinions that are offered so facilely. I don't do so well instantly changing myself, and I find it difficult to lay claim to my own discomfort, and easier to push it off on others. [/QUOTE]