My best friend put off hip surgery for a long time. Just kept getting shots. Last October, he was planning on getting the hip done in December, and he just wanted to get through his large Halloween party. Got a shot 7 days before the party, but it went all FUBAR, and he ended up not being able to move. He worked with it and was in a wheel cheer as part of his costume. Gets the surgery 7 days after Halloween. Told the Doc that his non-operative leg was 1/2" longer, so please don't make this leg shorter. 1st thing he noticed after the surgery was that his non-operative leg was 1" longer, or more. When he stands now, one leg is straight and one is always kicked out to form a triangle.
Recovery went great, and he was back golfing and all and work within a few months. He is NOT a good rehab type guy. Type of guy who would always push it ahead of schedule. Couple times he "overdid it" and felt it. Otherwise great.
Until 3 months ago. Hip starts hurting and much pain. Doc blows it off. 2 months ago he insists something's up, they look more closely, and he's got an internal infection. Cut, drain, stitch. All set and working great until 1.5 weeks ago. Infection returns. Cut, drain, stitch. Now they are saying that, if it happens again, he needs to have a new hip put in.
Bottom line is that his result was better than what he had, which was pretty much him lying around in severe pain, unable to walk. So, of course he should have done it.
The point of me writing this was two fold - 1. Things can and do go wrong, even if everybody does their job, and 2. Closely monitor yourself and insist on attention if things aren't right. Too often doctors, intentionally or paternalistically, dismiss real issues that patients bring to their attention. Had a friend in law school who almost died of bacterial meningitis. Literally told his wife to start preparing for it. 3 days earlier he had gone to the doctor with severe neck and head pain and they sent him home with aspirin. Only the fact that his wife took him into the ER and insisted on a bac. meningitis check saved his life. Really unnerving.
Good luck, listen to your doctors, and listen to your body. Your wife, at least pretend you're listening.