Kids go to other schools for many reasons:
1) Get away from mom and dad (out of CT)
2) Go to a school they watched on TV for 10 years growing up
3) Are told by their coach they can play at ABC school (big name) and they sit the bench but the coach looks good having his player going to a name school over UConn
4) Really connect with a coaching staff, players, environment. Just feels right.
If a kid goes to a certain college because his coach told him he should then the kid is not bright enough to play for UConn, IMHO.
I want coaches telling their players to look at all your options. I want them to tell their players the benefits of playing in front of family and friends and getting a great education. Discuss what the probability of playing time at each school and will he have a better shot at playing at UConn vs another "name" program
Then I want the coach to tell the kid to go sit down with his parent(s) or guardian and make the decision that feels right to THEM. Not the coach.
Pretty simple really. If a coach has an attitude because a UConn coach brushed him off over a certain player, he does a disservice to his other players going forward if he does not tell them to look at all your options and explain the benefits of playing at home.
Coaches have a way of putting themselves first. That's what p.i.sses me off the most.
Dammit you made log in again.
Sort of. You're right on #2 and #4, the others not so much, and the order is backward.
The most common, important, and frequent reason that a recruit chooses a school - any school - is because they like the coach(s) that have recruited them. That's it. How that relationship is established, can happen in many different ways, but it's almost always about the kid liking the recruiter.
The second most common, important and frequent reason that a recruit chooses a school, any school, (and this is a huge drop off in frequency as to the reason a kid chooses a school) is that they are hell bent on attending that school based on pre-conceived interest and notions (most often which comes from family members dating back to early childhood) and the recruiter really doesn't matter much. (unless - say - the kid reaches out and is completely ignored - it's better to be turned down and given a valid reason, in a situation like this, than to be completely ignored - IMNSHO)
Once the relationship with the recruiter is established, and the player can get to the campus and meet his potential future peer group - that becomes the most important thing. Players always build programs, coaches just drive the bus. It's a match between player and insititution, and the players that are already at the school, are the institution.
Everything and pretty much anything else (academics, conference affiliation, etc. etc - whatever else you can come up with) - and with regards to this discussion, the relationship a player may have with their high school coach and guidance counselors, and by extension, those H.S. coach relationship with the coaching staff at say ---- UCONN ---
all of that stuff, is what gets the recruiter through the door to the home, and begins to win over the parents, who will have influence on that kid's decision as to whether or not he likes the recruiter or not.
In that respect, UCONN has plenty to offer, and the new coach laid it all out yesterday. But it always comes down to whether or not the player likes the coach that is actually in their face and their ear, and in today's world, where we find ourselves competitively in conference and who we're recruiting against, and where.......
it's a good idea that we do the best we can with establishing a culture for the UCONN program, such that those figures of authority that a recruit trusts, have no reason to be blocking the doors.
It's up to the university itself, and the football program, and the recruiters to establish the profile of the student athlete they are recruiting, and then go find them and work through the process. If the recruit fits the profile, once they get to the campus and meet their peers, the process usually accelerates pretty quick.
This is why the camps and clinics getting entire groups of potential players together and competitng, are very important to really snowballing and ramping up recruiting.
It's all people skills and being willing to do whatever it takes (within the rules) to win that kid's respect and trust.