While it is probably true that the Men's player should have had a more direct and tangible punishment, the connection to the women player reporting him for vandalism to her car and the decrease in her playing time may not be accurate based on a comment posted in the comment section which I quote below.
"Since The Star refuses to print this, I'll do it. When Calvert starts for KU this year, they are 2-10. When she doesn't start they are 5-9. She's shooting 29% from the floor, 22% from 3, and 61% from the FT line. The last game she started she went 2-18 from the floor. The dip in points per game and minutes also coincides with the start of Big 12 play. Her big point games were in the non-con against easier opponents. Candace Parker she is not. This is likely an on-court decision but that doesn't generate clicks or newspaper buys. All of this info from the KU Athletics site by the way. I think I did more research and a higher level investigation than The Star did. I NEVER comment on stories on here but I felt the need to say something here since this story has been extremely slanted in one direction."
I have no idea if this is completely accurate and I have no intention of following it up but I add this only because many readers of the article may never look at the comment section and the title of this thread is so definitive.