Like just about all domestic violence cases, we know very little about what actually happened. He shouldn't have shoved her, but who knows how aggressively she got in his face? If she shoved him multiple times and he pushed back to keep her off of him then it's not so bad; keep in mind, his wife is a cop and probably gets more physical than that a few times a week on the job. If he shoved her down the stairs or something, then he's a piece of garbage. But we really have no idea, so I'm not going to jump to conclusions.