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So in an effort to get back to football, in a bye week, I'll just convey some thoughts I've been exposed to recently. Basic concepts that are never antiquated and not worthy of renewing. I had the wonderful opportunity recently to listen to a remarkable woman speak. An elementary school teacher that lived through the massacre of children by a deranged lunatic at Sandy Hook elementary school.
You can always have control over yourself and you can set goals and pick your challenges - but sometimes the challenge picks you, and sets your goals for you. It's not always something horrible, but when you set your entire life to being an elementary school teacher for example, and you've got your dream job, and the world decides that you're going to have different challenges than you might have planned for or want? What do you do?
Sometimes in life, no matter how dedicated you are to your performance and craft, and achieving your goals by creating your own challenges - a challenge picks you that can change everything and / or simply might make things really hard to move forward positively.
Coach D, I'm sure, now in hindsight, coming from where he did, with the memories of what he had of UCONN, had goals for himself, and picked a challenge to take on the job, a job of being a head coach that he' said he always wanted. His goals, coming to UCONN I'm sure were different than what he has now. The challenge he thought he was taking on? Chose a different path for him, that he expected I'm sure. Short term goals - change. Long term - to win championships - obviously hopefully - are the same!
But he got a challenge that picked him really - in a what he openly called a weak and fat team, where he couldn't tell the difference between a senior and freshmen.
I'm sure it was a challenge that the world gave him, that he didn't expect to set for himself, and we lived through his leadership response to it last season. He tore the house down.
But we're rebuilding it for sure. The program has reset, and set its own goals, and challenges - and were close. Very close to a level of playing football and post season appearance that we haven't had in a long time. And at the same time an outside challenge, beyond the control of the program- the schedule and opponents - has been picked for us.
A challenge that for a weak group of players - might change things.
I don't think we're that anymore though, I think we're a strong team.
Can't wait for next week. I hope they prepare well.
You can always have control over yourself and you can set goals and pick your challenges - but sometimes the challenge picks you, and sets your goals for you. It's not always something horrible, but when you set your entire life to being an elementary school teacher for example, and you've got your dream job, and the world decides that you're going to have different challenges than you might have planned for or want? What do you do?
Sometimes in life, no matter how dedicated you are to your performance and craft, and achieving your goals by creating your own challenges - a challenge picks you that can change everything and / or simply might make things really hard to move forward positively.
Coach D, I'm sure, now in hindsight, coming from where he did, with the memories of what he had of UCONN, had goals for himself, and picked a challenge to take on the job, a job of being a head coach that he' said he always wanted. His goals, coming to UCONN I'm sure were different than what he has now. The challenge he thought he was taking on? Chose a different path for him, that he expected I'm sure. Short term goals - change. Long term - to win championships - obviously hopefully - are the same!
But he got a challenge that picked him really - in a what he openly called a weak and fat team, where he couldn't tell the difference between a senior and freshmen.
I'm sure it was a challenge that the world gave him, that he didn't expect to set for himself, and we lived through his leadership response to it last season. He tore the house down.
But we're rebuilding it for sure. The program has reset, and set its own goals, and challenges - and were close. Very close to a level of playing football and post season appearance that we haven't had in a long time. And at the same time an outside challenge, beyond the control of the program- the schedule and opponents - has been picked for us.
A challenge that for a weak group of players - might change things.
I don't think we're that anymore though, I think we're a strong team.
Can't wait for next week. I hope they prepare well.
