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Message: [QUOTE="superjohn, post: 5285560, member: 1522"] I love the cat so much and the void my mom is going to feel is tough to deal with. She's even crying more than I remember her crying when her husband of nearly 50 years/my dad passed away. She wouldn't go on vacation for nearly 4 years because she couldn't spend a night away from her cat and he slept every night on her pillow next to her since he was a kitten. Now he has a recovery collar around his neck and we made the bathroom as comfortable for him with a plush sleeping arrangement because he's not supposed to jump on the bed for fear of tearing the post surgery stitches. It sounds like we're going to stop doing this and let him sleep next to my mom in bed starting tonight. I think she's deciding no chemo, I want to tell her it's worth fighting the lymphoma but it really doesn't seem like it is. I can't stop crying. [/QUOTE]