Great list so far! Kids are not invited. Definitely looking for more adult activities, nightlife, co-eds
We are going to arrive thursday and stay the weekend so we have time to explore and play a bit. Right now we are leaning more to a day in Boston over NYC (been there done that * 100).
Where are you staying?
In Hartford for night life -
Russian Lady, Black Eyed Sallys (blues). For food Dish is not bad, Black Eyed Sallys, Max Downtown (high end), City Steam Brewery (micro brewery bar), Feng, Trumbull Kitchen. Best area restaurants are in West Hartford Center/Blue Back Square.
Further south at the casinos nightlife -
Foxwoods - Shrine
Mohegan Sun - Avalon
Food at the casinos is very pricey for what you get but for seafood Jasper White's at Mohegan is okay.
For a beach (all are in RI) - easier to get to than Misquamicut is Westerly town beach. Not a lot of parking. But don't wander onto Taylor Swift's property. If you want a beach with parking, Misquamicut could work or go a little further to Scarborough. Better overall beach in my opinion.
Boston is a place that can be visited any time of year. Alternatives to Boston -
For a really unique day trip that includes a beach, go to Block Island. There is a high speed ferry from New London, CT.
https://www.goblockisland.com/
Pack a cooler. Rent a bike from Aldo's and bike to the light houses, hang out on Mansion Beach and then head to Ballards (next to ferry dock) to watch some beach volleyball while enjoying adult beverages. For food, trust Trip Advisor. I have eaten at all of the top 20 and they all have decent food and all are close to the ferry dock. Grab your last drink before leaving on the porch of the National Hotel. Don't miss the last ferry home. You have an hour to get your head straight on the ferry ride home and can hot the casinos on the way back towards Hartford.
If you have never been to Newport, RI, the mansions are something to be seen. Do the cliff walk.
http://www.cliffwalk.com/ Not to mention the amazing yachts in the harbor. Great viewing on the Newport/Jamestown ferry for the yachts.
http://jamestownnewportferry.com/ Some great food (a few world class establishments that charge accordingly) and nightlife there too. Beware the cops in Newport and have a designated driver because the bridges on the way home should not be attempted under the influence.
Lobster and clams. Everyone has their own favorite places but I will offer Abbotts Lobster in the rough in Noank (near Mystic). Seasonal Place that is BYOB. Pricey compared to some other lobster shacks but great view (my sailboat is the prettiest girl in that harbor, although I am biased) and high quality food. Get some steamers and have a local show you how to clean them, dip them and eat them.
http://abbottslobster.com/