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Message: [QUOTE="Dogdeacon, post: 3869849, member: 1026"] I say absolutely no, don't buy your wife's 'grew up there' home. The sibling rivalry bs from the tough family makes it iffy. But more importantly I think when people return to their same hometown and house, there is reason to regress and fall back into what one was like then, even if there is no trauma there is simply a tendency to act more like a child. And you and your wife are trying to start a new family, blending in experiences from both your pasts. Trying to do so in her old house will suddenly make her family's traditions, habits and customs much more important. Bottom line its hard enough to be married, yes finances can complicate greatly but if you have a partnership you can work that out. This is throwing her entire family & childhood into the marriage pot and stirring, unnecessary. [/QUOTE]