I love the Pats, what an amazing game the SB was. And I have great pride in the women's team, I love watching them in big games, not so much against everybody else.
But I've always been a men's basketball fan first and foremost, and that's why I talk about them the most. Through think and thin, I'm here and I'm at their games and I'll be there Sunday and I'll be there next week in the tournament, working around their games just like I did when they played in the BET
This season is killing me, it can't be sugar coated
Same here with all of your post - Pats, women's bb and my strongest connection being with the men's bb team. This season I'm challenging myself to be as invested with the team and outcomes the same as the past without ending up devastated. Most of us are either passionate or dispassionate. Very few of us can reduce negative passion while keeping positive passion (exclusive of outside supplements). That's my goal. Not easy.
There's no sugar coating this season. Don't see people doing that.
The APR sanctions happened and everyone agrees about it. The split amongst us is over the degree and the duration of the impact.
Injuries have happened. The split once again is over the degree and duration the injuries impact events.
I've expressed my opinion many times. I've expressed it probably more than I should have and definitely more than I preferred. The lunacy of most of us is not that our conclusions are right or wrong or different from other viewpoints, but the ridiculous numbers of times we need to state them. We already have a group that agrees and a group that disagrees with us. Do any of us honestly believe that by stating things over and over again anything will change either with the team and/or with regards to people's opinions in this forum? We may be frustrated with other peoples recalcitrance but shouldn't we be equally frustrated that all we are doing is
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If we can't change others than the only thing left is to ignore things or to change ourselves. If we spent just a fraction of the time that we insist others change in fixing ourselves, this world would be a better place. It's not easy as I've stated above and that assumes we recognize that the problem resides just as much in us as it does in others.