John,
Yeah, I am holding 17-18 year olds to a standard. Not only 17-18 year olds, but their parents and guardians and their AAU/high school coaches, too. Considering nearly every college athlete complies with that standard, I'm not sure what the problem is. Maybe you can explain it. Let's see...there is a rule. It is widely known and most people follow it. kemba Walker followed it. Drummond Followed it. Alex Oriakhi followed it. Shabazz Napier followed it. Tell me why Ryan Boatright should be exempt. I assume that these kids and their parents, guardians and coaches are smart enough to know the rules. Whie I'm not necessarily accusing you, I've seen other posts of yours that are completely rational, I do see a tendency here to assume that these athletes are just "dumb jocks" and couldn't possibly be intellegent enough to follow something as complex as NCAA eligibility rules.
As to your question about the problem with him missing a flight and being given a ticket, I guess there are a few answers. 1. It depends on who paid for the ticket. If his mom did, that isn't a problem. If his AAU team did, that isn't either as I understand it. But what if it was an agent? what if it was Nochimson for example? there are rules in place. for a reason. He should follow them, no?
As far as due process, the NCAA got reamed by the US Supreme Court over that very issue in the Tarkanian case. They have due process in these cases.
One last point, since I went back and re-read your post. On the systemic issues. I think we're in agreement that the AAU system is a sludgepit. Unfortunately the NCAA doesn't control it and th ecollege coaches like it. I think the NCAA could have some impact if it wanted to, but the coaches would battle to the last man to keep the currnet system. hell, where would you rather go on a recuriting trip, Las Vegas or some high school gym in some grimy small city in central Ohio, followed by one in east Tennessee? I'd like to see the NCAA crack down on the AAU system, maybe with a certification process for caoches and teams and tournaments where if you played for an uncertified team you undergo a much more rigorous review. While that won't solve all the problems, it will be a start.