I once was with a very beautiful woman. After a nice dinner that night I played hard, very hard. To my horror and disappointment I could not finish and lost the lady. Only thing I have to show for it is frustration and out of pocket expenses.
After that 'game' I still played hard but I learned to switch dinners for a small pizza and two beers (to go). Oh and not to get drunk on a first date.
I'm just saying I'm still waiting to see what results come out of this losing experience and what they are learning.