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- Feb 11, 2015
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I perceive Muffet as a coach who seems to be a far more gracious winner than she is a gracious loser. Winning or losing frequently generates powerful waves of emotions in coaches (and fans). As tough a coach as Geno is perceived he has learned to successfully ride these strong emotional currents and as a result, his behavior at a presser regularly comes across to the objective viewer as both effective and appropriate regardless of the game’s result. On the other hand, Muffet seems to get completely overwhelmed by these emotional waves and as a consequence, her losing pressers often come across as ineffective, inappropriate and, at times, quite disingenuous. Since emotions have a strong influence on the way that a person acts then a coach needs to be in control of these emotions if he or she wants their presser comments to come across as relevant, classy and thoughtful. However, when a coach’s emotions control the moment, words uttered can be interpreted as clumsy, tacky and void of logical or intelligent thinking. To me it was undoubtedly difficult for a Muffet to control her disheartened emotions at the end of yet another bitter UConn loss because she lacks the inherent toughness to say the words that might best capture the superior ability of UConn. If she’s not tough enough to say it then her players will never develop the requisite toughness to play it when UConn is the opponent.